UGA Wesley

For those of you who weren't able to make the retreat, here are some of the highlights from the talks.

Friday Night--Micah Eldridge
We all have a sex life--we're sexual beings. Our culture says sex it "to someone for our recreational benefit ." Three typical sexual conditions, from Genesis 16: (1) Sarah-- chose sexual sin in giving Hagar to Abraham. Her solution is repentance. (2)Abram--was easily tempted. His solution is to fight the fight. (3) Hagar: was abused and mistreated. Her solution is to know "the God who sees me."
It is the kindness of God that leads to repentance. Fear of punishment doesn't--only a surface level change.
What we are in need of is for the gospel--that Jesus is our savior and deliverer--to go deeper. Most of us accept the gospel for our salvation, but it hasn't permeated our whole lives.

Saturday Morning--Clay Kirkland
Wisdom list:
1. You don't have to know if you are going to marry a person before you date them.
2. Everyone's story is different--don't measure your story against others' story.
3. Only one relationship is supposed to work out.
4. Have really high standards for character, realistic standards for the 'extras.'
5. If you should date someone and break up, both of you should be able to leave as better people.
6. Clarity is a must in every stage of relationship.
7. Don't confuse intimacy with sexual desire.
8. Pay attention to your attraction.
9. You need boundaries.
10. Understand the difference between feelings and commitment.
11. Don't overspiritualize your relationship.
12. Don't get too serious too soon.
13. Waiting is not such a bad thing.

Saturday Night--Micah
Maturity in relationship is servanthood coming from love. In a mature relationship you are looking to be a servant and not for your own selfish gain.

These are highlights, so don't read too much into them. Talk to someone who went if you'd like clarification on any points!

David for the Leadership Staff